I`m with Mike on this one. If you don`t want others to see info about you, then why do you take the time to create a profile in the first place? You could just be a stalker and not sign in, then no one would know you were here, but then you also couldn`t post, which would give you away anyhow. I also agree that it would be nice to be able to approve a buddy to add you on their list. As it is now, someone could just add everyone they wanted to, and work their way right up the popular list. LOL