I agree with Jon on this one. My fiance supports my diving to the full extent, but refuses to get in the water, let alone use the equipment. Not everyone has the mental path designed to allow SCUBA. She rocks at many other things, but this is not her sport. It sounds like Angie would be a great asset since she has encountered and beat this problem. It is much harder for those who have not experienced it to truly help the situation. Vortex is a great place to work on these skills as its clear water(haha) and not hectic seas. Good luck.